Moving Out of the Way and Allowing Things to Unfold

Back in 2012 when I was receiving Gnan Vidhi, a ceremony to invoke knowledge of self or self realization by a guru of Dadashri I learned a lesson.

The guru while explaining the spiritual practice of detachment, used the example of scientific circumstances to explain our lack of control over everything. Now science means knowledge, so the term basically means knowledge of everything. The theory explains that at any given time there is many different components making up any and all experiences. Most of these components we are unaware of.

Involvement or attachment to people and situations is often the cause of our suffering. Many people, places, things and circumstances are occurring and affecting one another on a subtle level. Because of a lack of awareness it is easy to assume lone responsibility for making things happen.

The example the guru used was making a cup of tea. To make a cup of tea one needs a teapot, a tea bag, water fire, milk or lemon and sweetener. If these components are missing we are unable to make the tea properly. Yet a human would claim that he alone is making the tea.

The guru jokes that if the teapot could speak it would claim to make the tea. If the tea bag could speak it would claim to make the tea. However as stated before if any of the components we're missing there would be no tea. The point in this matter is recognizing that we truly have no control over anything outside of ourselves. Keeping this in mind can help to deal with people, situations and circumstances that bring us discomfort. When we take the time too step back from the situation and recognize and accept that we have no control over it, it allows us to be free. We can then redirect attention to how we choose to react and withdraw our energy from an undesired outcome.

It is important to know when to pick your battles. It is also important to recognize that where attention goes energy flows. This can be especially hard when dealing with someone that you love or with a situation that affects your livelihood. However continuously giving attention to something outside of your control will cause stress.
If the situation involves another party there may be conflict if you do not allow that person to resolve their own problems.

Often when there is an attachment to a person their actions can be taken personally. When a person is experiencing pain and they are hurting it is easy to hurt people around them. We must learn to hold space for others from a distance.

Learn to explore the possibility of getting out of the way and allowing things to flow. A part of acceptance is to allow things out of our control to be. Allowing situations to happen without getting involved does not mean we are not concerned. It means our concern can be channelled without anxiety or conflict by holding space in our hearts or mind. Sending love, encouragement and intenions for the highest achievable outcome available.

Removing oneself from conflict can spare us pain and suffering and allow for things to be worked out for the better. It's always more beneficial to focus energy on the things that we do want instead of the outcome we don't want.

With the highest love,
Rayna aka Lady Rays Howe
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Self Love the Ultimate Tool of Empowerment & Inspiration.

Being present, accepting, sitting with and feeling all that is you, in this and every moment, in GRATITUDE, is the first step in healing. It is the first level in expressing self love and attracting our desires. Showing love no matter what,, just like you would to a new born baby is a positive influence not only to your mind, heart and every molecule or particle you posses but it expands out to your counter parts and the entire collective around you.

You ask what do I mean by the collective? The collective is the people that grace your precense, sit in your circle, cross your path. The collective consists of those who love you, work with you, work against you, even speak with you at the deli or the bank. You see we are all intermingled with one another and your joy and expression of love permeates out in and through your family, community and world. But you must practice being a lover of life and self all the time. You have to learn to love your self and everything that comes with it. Embrace your blessings, your challenges, your blemishes and your blooming sustenance. Everything turns out for the good when you love the goodness that is you and God. I bet your saying duuh everyone knows this! Who doesn't love themselves? Well you would be surprised. Most people do not have enough trust to show love to others and that lack of trust usual comes from within. Also remember we talked about the definition and levels of love HERE. Love has much to do with how we identify and relate to others. It is an attraction based primarily off familiarity and kinship. Many of us do not express the high versions of love expressed in the book of 1st Corinthians

You are probably saying right now "Ray Ray I do not know what you are talking about I love myself!" I am sure you do on some levels. I bet you love yourself enough to provide food and shelter, get ya nails did or the new Jordan's or what ever pumps ya blood. But you can tell how much you love yourself by what is around you. I do not mean just physically because physical choices are often put together to establish and appearance. How ever these relationships and how we identify with our environment the job you keep, the practices you have, your diet and personal relationships tell all. If any are negative it has to do with your conviction in the love you have for yourself. Are you always patient with self? Are you always kind to self? Are you never angered by self? Do you TRUST yourself ? <<< That is a deep one! Do you fail yourself for outside things?

I know what your thinking, Rays be rational I HAVE to work 60 hours to blah blah blah, I do not have time to always eat healthy meals, I do not have time to sleep eight hours. I can't buy bottled water all the time, can't afford.... I say soul kin you are making excuses. I am here to tell you that when you show yourself love on the highest level all things around you will transmute, opportunities for more love in your life, provisions will be made, those around you will prosper. You just have to have the conviction for self love.  Trust and believe, know you deserve it and everything will follow it. The illusion that your energy should flow to anything before you is dangerous, for if you are not able or alive surely all of these things will continue to function with out you. Do the world a favor, love yourself. Go get that!

With All Love
Priestess Rayna aka Lady of Rays
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Loving Yourself Through it. Love is How We Identify With Our Aspects

Everything you embark on if you subscribe to the law of attraction is an agreement consciously and unconsciously. Unconscious agreements happen when we relate to things, be they due to kinship or familiarity. The relation allows us to come in agreement with the person, place or circumstance and basically make it our own.

ALL PERSONS, PLACES AND CIRCUMSTANCES ARE POINTS OF VIEW OF THE SELF (which is reflections or image of God). When you relate intimately to a point of view you OFTEN and unconsciously agree to identify with it.


Full Definition of identify

iden·ti·fied iden·ti·fy·ing
transitive verb

1a :  to cause to be or become identical
b :  to conceive as united (as in spirit, outlook, or principle) <groups that are identified with conservation>

2a :  to establish the identity of
b :  to determine the taxonomic position of (a biological specimen)

intransitive verb
1  to be or become the same
2to practise psychological identification <identify with the hero of a novel>

Unfortunately we tend to identify with many of our negative experiences on a deep and unconscious level. Trauma being the biggest infiltrator of all. It's probably because traumas are usually hidden within our main core identity or ego and work silently behind the scenes like the Great and Wonderful Oz. Traumas stay hidden in order to protect its identity like the Incredible Hulk hehe you feel me on this. The aim of the trauma is to protect us from like situations by recording similar circumstances, linking them and charging them with emotions such as fear, anxiety and anger.. The unfortunate part is with any thought process that we take on,  within us unconsciously these thoughts create a life and character of its own, These thoughts like any other outside entity we host for a long time will gain some level of influence. You will be housing qualities and impressions of many circumstances, situations, persons place and things. An intimate guest, for instance a mate over time  will impress upon us and us upon them. The dominant force often rules and makes the biggest impression sending its underlying desires and impulses onto the host.

So anyway back to this identifying with outsiders as recognition of certain aspects we need to attend to in ourselves... When your hit with the uncanny familiarity, this wonder and you are consciously in awe of the magnetism between this someone or something access this feeling immediately, this is the unconscious charge I was talking about. No matter if its a good or bad feeling, the fact that it is a bit irrational to have this intense preconceived notion is worthy of questioning.  Ask yourself/soul (and please say Soul, God, Guides or Angels, Higher Self to prevent your ego or unconscious program from answering like the Oz) immediately if you can and write it down some unbiased and open ended questions; "Why am I encountering this place, what do you want to experience and note what pops in your head or your feelings."
The characters inside love direct questions and the evolved ones that want to hide will stir discomfort and defense. Make note of that as well.

Sometimes your journey requires full fledged hard core experience. I am that type.  If your loyal to the game of life and begin to entertain some tumultuous endeavor yet FEEL like you must play to the end..... its time to begin to identify with what in the heck YOU need to learn and cultivate within SELF to free this trauma. After a while and with grace and age you will learn that you can always have the contrasting wonderful and loving experience to learn lessons also. All the while loving yourself through ALL your experiences.

You stayed there enduring this hideous job, lover or locale all because you were serving an unconscious aspect of yourself  that needs to be healed. Now that's deep sun! Lol

With love, love, love
Lady of Rays
Aka BriteMoon

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