Connections, Correspondence & Control

It's been a while since I have shared but I have been overwhelmed with the themes playing out in my immediate circle. The exchanges mentally, emotionally and physically have ranged from comanding the flow of cash, presentation of life changing opportunity, impulses to rid myself of behaviors, people and employment to fantasizing about seducing a long time interest. What is with me as of late?
Sign of the times.

I pride myself in the understanding of the connections I have with others and the world around me. The world is a vast expression of information playing out through all faucets of existence, regardless if we perceive it or lay in ignorance of it.

I like to think of life as an illusion. Reality is a complex cocktail of information, relationships and correspondence between those observing. The integrity between the observer and the environment is the key to creating ones reality.

The amount of information one holds and the way that information is processed effects how and what experiences we have with new information. Basically what you believe and have been taught will greatly influence the way you process new data, if you will be able to accept certain data and how you connect to everyone and everything. 

The ability to make new connections, be influenced and impact what's around you is key in personal development and the evolution of your community and group consciousness.
So many things in play the only control is self awareness.

So what is correspondence have to do with anything?

 noun1. a close similarity, connection, or equivalence.

The understanding that everything from your adversary to the moon is working together, has a connection, an archetype and a purpose is very empowering. 

For example the biggest motivation for this blog was self observation and acknowledgement of the big picture. This past week was dramatic but the weeks leading up to my birthday seemed more intense then the six months prior to it. My numerological years theme is personal change and the decisions presenting themselves as of late were agressively tying up loose ends. 

Immense opportunities presented at a serious time of transition that could alter my life path. My numerology cycle was themed toward moving forward and releasing the old (9). Nine represents completion of a level. 

An income based apartment in Greenwich CT I had been wait listed for since 2010 called to interview me. A contract for 20 new properties to manually bill presented it self in conflict with my school schedule but in alignment with my financial goals. Decisions about employment, over working and even a last minute and abrupt relocation occurred. The fire of the solstice, the emotion of Cancer and the summer season flow was definitely influencial. 

But Leo turned up the fire. My oldest son soon to be 18 left to join the Army on July 24th and the realization of how our relationship dynamic will change truly set the stage for restructuring. New beginnings are aggressively entering and reflecting in and around me.

Once I recognized the ebb and flow of those themes the energy shifted again. I was aware of the coming full moon, eclipse in Aquarius and recognized the theme of hidden and obscurity coming to the surface. Long drawn out issues, relationships, repetitive behaviors and boundaries that need drastic change surfaced. Suddenly there was an impulse and uneasiness within calling for action.

The character within me that was called forth was definitely dealing with underlying issues like a care free rebel. She surfaced with assertion, sexuality and fire. Immediate action needed to be taken to remove people, places and things at once and the right one was invoked. 

I made a no call no show at a job. I emotionally decreed no more positions that physically effect me. I often renig when money presents itself but I confirmed my position when I turned down a new position after being orientating.   

The overwhelming feeling to say "fuck that!" along with my urgency to act in FOH manner dominated my actions. It was so impulsive yet passionate. I immediately sensed it was a trait of my Aries rising sign. 

Most of us are familiar with our sun sign. The zodiac has a place and purpose for all the planets when it comes to expressing life themes, occurrences and personal traits. My sun is in Cancer.

A Rising sign or the ascendant, is the zodiac sign and degree that is ascending on the Eastern horizon at the specific time of an event, which in this case was my birth. Trust and believe I am in no way implying that Aries made me do anything. Aries in fact is within me and is a big part of how I interact and impress upon the world. Since I know myself it was easy for me to recognize the archetype driving my behaviors. This in turn made me look to see what in the environnent was corresponding to my new fire.

Being active in metaphysical circles I was privy to the fact several planets were retrograde. Mars which rules Aries symbolically went back and brought up some of my unfinished business. Seems the planets were assisting the process of resolve and release that my numerological cycle presented before my graduation to a this one year cycle. Aries is also symbolic of one by the way.  

When many themes are at a conjunction or all playing for the dominate spot at once, it can be harsh. In this instance my relative characteristics we're activated! Mars had been retrograde for almost 3 weeks but with the moon, eclipse, Aquarius, Mercury retrograde and the physical fact Mars is visibly closer to the Earth lit up my soul. 

A certain authority presented itself and made things move. All is relative and working together. This is exciting. Today I made a decision to release some unhealthy habits today and I will follow up when Mars goes direct the end of August.

Decoding Using Correspondence

Full: Complete not lacking
moon: reflective body of light, satellite giving and collecting information on out side of peripheral (outside or outskirts) but influencial.
Subconscious, emotions, intuition, caring, water, 2, Cancer, white, cream, greenfeminine, Monday, High Priestess

Eclipse: obscuring, hiding

Blood: life force, inheritance, red

Retrograde: moving in contrast
Going back to a previous point.

Mars: War god, 4th from sun, Aries, violence, sex, disfigure or bruise, fire, 9, masculine, red, Tuesday, Hermit


Aquarius: witty, independent, rebel, social, activist. Uranus

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Moving Out of the Way and Allowing Things to Unfold

Back in 2012 when I was receiving Gnan Vidhi, a ceremony to invoke knowledge of self or self realization by a guru of Dadashri I learned a lesson.

The guru while explaining the spiritual practice of detachment, used the example of scientific circumstances to explain our lack of control over everything. Now science means knowledge, so the term basically means knowledge of everything. The theory explains that at any given time there is many different components making up any and all experiences. Most of these components we are unaware of.

Involvement or attachment to people and situations is often the cause of our suffering. Many people, places, things and circumstances are occurring and affecting one another on a subtle level. Because of a lack of awareness it is easy to assume lone responsibility for making things happen.

The example the guru used was making a cup of tea. To make a cup of tea one needs a teapot, a tea bag, water fire, milk or lemon and sweetener. If these components are missing we are unable to make the tea properly. Yet a human would claim that he alone is making the tea.

The guru jokes that if the teapot could speak it would claim to make the tea. If the tea bag could speak it would claim to make the tea. However as stated before if any of the components we're missing there would be no tea. The point in this matter is recognizing that we truly have no control over anything outside of ourselves. Keeping this in mind can help to deal with people, situations and circumstances that bring us discomfort. When we take the time too step back from the situation and recognize and accept that we have no control over it, it allows us to be free. We can then redirect attention to how we choose to react and withdraw our energy from an undesired outcome.

It is important to know when to pick your battles. It is also important to recognize that where attention goes energy flows. This can be especially hard when dealing with someone that you love or with a situation that affects your livelihood. However continuously giving attention to something outside of your control will cause stress.
If the situation involves another party there may be conflict if you do not allow that person to resolve their own problems.

Often when there is an attachment to a person their actions can be taken personally. When a person is experiencing pain and they are hurting it is easy to hurt people around them. We must learn to hold space for others from a distance.

Learn to explore the possibility of getting out of the way and allowing things to flow. A part of acceptance is to allow things out of our control to be. Allowing situations to happen without getting involved does not mean we are not concerned. It means our concern can be channelled without anxiety or conflict by holding space in our hearts or mind. Sending love, encouragement and intenions for the highest achievable outcome available.

Removing oneself from conflict can spare us pain and suffering and allow for things to be worked out for the better. It's always more beneficial to focus energy on the things that we do want instead of the outcome we don't want.

With the highest love,
Rayna aka Lady Rays Howe
Reiki Master, Priestess & Minister
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Self Love the Ultimate Tool of Empowerment & Inspiration.

Being present, accepting, sitting with and feeling all that is you, in this and every moment, in GRATITUDE, is the first step in healing. It is the first level in expressing self love and attracting our desires. Showing love no matter what,, just like you would to a new born baby is a positive influence not only to your mind, heart and every molecule or particle you posses but it expands out to your counter parts and the entire collective around you.

You ask what do I mean by the collective? The collective is the people that grace your precense, sit in your circle, cross your path. The collective consists of those who love you, work with you, work against you, even speak with you at the deli or the bank. You see we are all intermingled with one another and your joy and expression of love permeates out in and through your family, community and world. But you must practice being a lover of life and self all the time. You have to learn to love your self and everything that comes with it. Embrace your blessings, your challenges, your blemishes and your blooming sustenance. Everything turns out for the good when you love the goodness that is you and God. I bet your saying duuh everyone knows this! Who doesn't love themselves? Well you would be surprised. Most people do not have enough trust to show love to others and that lack of trust usual comes from within. Also remember we talked about the definition and levels of love HERE. Love has much to do with how we identify and relate to others. It is an attraction based primarily off familiarity and kinship. Many of us do not express the high versions of love expressed in the book of 1st Corinthians

You are probably saying right now "Ray Ray I do not know what you are talking about I love myself!" I am sure you do on some levels. I bet you love yourself enough to provide food and shelter, get ya nails did or the new Jordan's or what ever pumps ya blood. But you can tell how much you love yourself by what is around you. I do not mean just physically because physical choices are often put together to establish and appearance. How ever these relationships and how we identify with our environment the job you keep, the practices you have, your diet and personal relationships tell all. If any are negative it has to do with your conviction in the love you have for yourself. Are you always patient with self? Are you always kind to self? Are you never angered by self? Do you TRUST yourself ? <<< That is a deep one! Do you fail yourself for outside things?

I know what your thinking, Rays be rational I HAVE to work 60 hours to blah blah blah, I do not have time to always eat healthy meals, I do not have time to sleep eight hours. I can't buy bottled water all the time, can't afford.... I say soul kin you are making excuses. I am here to tell you that when you show yourself love on the highest level all things around you will transmute, opportunities for more love in your life, provisions will be made, those around you will prosper. You just have to have the conviction for self love.  Trust and believe, know you deserve it and everything will follow it. The illusion that your energy should flow to anything before you is dangerous, for if you are not able or alive surely all of these things will continue to function with out you. Do the world a favor, love yourself. Go get that!

With All Love
Priestess Rayna aka Lady of Rays
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Loving Yourself Through it. Love is How We Identify With Our Aspects

Everything you embark on if you subscribe to the law of attraction is an agreement consciously and unconsciously. Unconscious agreements happen when we relate to things, be they due to kinship or familiarity. The relation allows us to come in agreement with the person, place or circumstance and basically make it our own.

ALL PERSONS, PLACES AND CIRCUMSTANCES ARE POINTS OF VIEW OF THE SELF (which is reflections or image of God). When you relate intimately to a point of view you OFTEN and unconsciously agree to identify with it.


Full Definition of identify

iden·ti·fied iden·ti·fy·ing
transitive verb

1a :  to cause to be or become identical
b :  to conceive as united (as in spirit, outlook, or principle) <groups that are identified with conservation>

2a :  to establish the identity of
b :  to determine the taxonomic position of (a biological specimen)

intransitive verb
1  to be or become the same
2to practise psychological identification <identify with the hero of a novel>

Unfortunately we tend to identify with many of our negative experiences on a deep and unconscious level. Trauma being the biggest infiltrator of all. It's probably because traumas are usually hidden within our main core identity or ego and work silently behind the scenes like the Great and Wonderful Oz. Traumas stay hidden in order to protect its identity like the Incredible Hulk hehe you feel me on this. The aim of the trauma is to protect us from like situations by recording similar circumstances, linking them and charging them with emotions such as fear, anxiety and anger.. The unfortunate part is with any thought process that we take on,  within us unconsciously these thoughts create a life and character of its own, These thoughts like any other outside entity we host for a long time will gain some level of influence. You will be housing qualities and impressions of many circumstances, situations, persons place and things. An intimate guest, for instance a mate over time  will impress upon us and us upon them. The dominant force often rules and makes the biggest impression sending its underlying desires and impulses onto the host.

So anyway back to this identifying with outsiders as recognition of certain aspects we need to attend to in ourselves... When your hit with the uncanny familiarity, this wonder and you are consciously in awe of the magnetism between this someone or something access this feeling immediately, this is the unconscious charge I was talking about. No matter if its a good or bad feeling, the fact that it is a bit irrational to have this intense preconceived notion is worthy of questioning.  Ask yourself/soul (and please say Soul, God, Guides or Angels, Higher Self to prevent your ego or unconscious program from answering like the Oz) immediately if you can and write it down some unbiased and open ended questions; "Why am I encountering this place, what do you want to experience and note what pops in your head or your feelings."
The characters inside love direct questions and the evolved ones that want to hide will stir discomfort and defense. Make note of that as well.

Sometimes your journey requires full fledged hard core experience. I am that type.  If your loyal to the game of life and begin to entertain some tumultuous endeavor yet FEEL like you must play to the end..... its time to begin to identify with what in the heck YOU need to learn and cultivate within SELF to free this trauma. After a while and with grace and age you will learn that you can always have the contrasting wonderful and loving experience to learn lessons also. All the while loving yourself through ALL your experiences.

You stayed there enduring this hideous job, lover or locale all because you were serving an unconscious aspect of yourself  that needs to be healed. Now that's deep sun! Lol

With love, love, love
Lady of Rays
Aka BriteMoon

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Healing With the Golden Ray & Inner Child Sacred Activation

After receiving a healing request on Facebook from a friend in reference to a family member with terminal stage four Cancer, I began to wonder how can I assist. The woman requested that I send energy to lessen pain and suffering, but as a healer I thought about the possibilities of healing the Cancer. As a channel I try not to become involved with outcomes or get attached to any expectations. A healing is generally in alignment with the receivers ability to receive. The ability to heal is depending on several things such as perception, beliefs, the path of the soul and what it has agreed to on a Karmic scale. We may hope and pray that our family is delivered from any affliction but often healing isn't just physical. Healing can be the ability to accept, surrender and embrace a lesson or experience. Healing can be self forgiveness, forgiveness of others
and taking responsibility for our thoughts and reactions.

From my studies of the unconscious or subconscious mind we store traumatic events which become buried deep within. These events when recorded hold the energy of sound, smell, ideas, people, places and things.
These traumas are reactivated when similar events, surroundings and people trigger the trauma. The similar circumstances then build on each other to cause mental anguish, stress and physical imbalance. Cancer is thought spiritually to be related to childhood trauma, perhaps an accident or issues with the parents. This loving person who becomes afflicted after suppressing painful emotions is usually triggered by another traumatic event or unhealthy lifestyles. Many are full of joy for life and the Earth and generally buries any bitterness, resentment and feelings attached to the parent or circumstance and never deals with them. Feelings buried alive however never die! If the issues are not triggered to resurface and cause mental discomfort they can manifest as a physical illness.

Please put down your baggage, release and surrender to the Golden Ray of Forgiveness. Allow the sacred energy to balance and clear your chakras while I facilitate the Inner Child Reconnection Activation. The inner child activation assists in the return of youthfulness, innocence and lifeforce taken away when you have a traumatic experiences. The sacred activations take time to integrate. Please drink plenty of water and allow the energy to integrate with grace and ease.

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jai sat chi anand
Rayna

Akashic Record Meditation & New Moon Manifesting Meditation.

Join me next new moon 6/8/2013 at 7 pm Eastern to about 8 pm for an Akashic Record Meditation & New Moon Manifestation. 

The Akashic Records are the combination of all knowledge; past, present and possible involving the Earth and its Inhabitants (and more). Akasha is said to be a Sanskrit word but one mystic who channel divine information stated that it is "the word", logos or the first divine utterance. It was explained to her that Akasha the primordial sound that moved across the waters when the creator of all that is said "Let Their Be Light". In Sanskrit is is believed to mean "Primordial Substance". Imagine a vibration frequency likened to the greatest musical composition possible  carrying all the notes of everything that is while playing everything that is to be... all at once. I see the Akashic record as has music with an unimaginable amount of instruments, pitches, tones and notes but the listener can only discover as much as their ear is trained to hear. 

Everyone with pure intention should be able to access his or her Akashic records with applied focus, permission from the record keepers and assistance from higher power. Reading the Akashic records would take a very in-tuned person who can hold great focus and as I would like to believe has been ordained by the authority appointed and the higher powers to read them, for others.  I learned about the Akashic records from peers, independent ponders from the internet, and my own innate understanding. A few years ago  I discovered the concept of universal mind and connection to everything when looking a tree stump and then recognizing my finger prints had the same encoding. I did a Google search and came up with Fibonacci's sequence, the Golden ratio and tons of geometric shapes and their representations in nature. My favorite being spirals.

That day of pondering led me and my spiritual discernment to connect shapes, ratios, geometry, quantum physics, vibration, waves, creation and sound to the bibles Genesis where God spoke over the primordial waters "let their be light".  Shortly after that I begin envisioning people as groups in meditation but the groups were in the form of particles. I then began envisioning a light grid connecting all the particles with particles that were the Earth and around the Earth. I though of this as the Universal Mind, Group consciousness of our creation and once the concept was introduced to me I thought of it as the Akashic Records. Everything is everything,  fractals, reflections and movement in cycles, 360 degrees. These cycles led me to Karma and the illusion that keeps us stuck within cycles.

He sent down rains from above in proper quantity

and He brings back to life the dead earth, similarly

ye shall be reborn.

The Koran

Chapter 25, Sura Kakhraf, Meccan Verses 5-10-13

When Jesus came into the region of Caesarea Philipi,

He asked His disciples saying, “Who do men say that

I, the Son of Man, am?” So they said, “Some say John

the Baptist, some say Elijah, and others Jeremiah or

one of the prophets.” And Simon Peter answered and

said, “You are the Christ, the Son of the Living G-d.”

Matthew 16:13-16

Your eyes saw My substance being yet unformed.

And in Your Book they all were written, the days

fashioned for me when as yet there were none

of them.”

Psalm 139:16

Later I read a very similar concept about my creation theory from a book by Roberta S. Herzog. an Akashic Record reader. Through the writing of Roberta I realized that the Masters and Keepers of Akasha have been introduced to me unexpected in healing and through initiations.  I whole heartily believe that I will be able to read the Akashic Records for others in the future once I am able to simplify my life and allow more inner focus and meditation. I see a trip to Thialand being involved...Anywho 

In this meditation we will begin with a focused prayer for assistance from the creator of all that is and ask for permission to access the Akashic records from the appointed guardians. 

I will perform an empowerment to help open the groups consciousness up to reading the Akashic records (which you will be able to pass to others). A manual will be emailed to you.

We will then do a meditation to raise the group consciousness, a clearing to remove any non beneficial energy and a guided meditation to access our own personal record. It is important that you read the manual or at least below to get an idea of what to expect, questions you should and should not ask and tools to assist.

This is a guided meditations so please expect "an experience" but not a particular one. I facilitate these to get you used to accessing spiritual tools (heart, divine mind, spirit, soul etc) and have you focus on self, inside, healing, creativity, manifestation etc. Rituals are a good psychological habit to develop. The use of symbolism to program your mind can allow for you to shift consciousness with words, colors etc (BELIEVE ME). Advertisors do it to you all day, via rhetoric, visual, olfactory, emotional and any other sensual stimuli.

You can use dates, times, colors, objects, occasions or whatever to stimulate association and trigger certain thoughts. We must practice inside work, everything outside of your eye sockets is a perceived illusion. In general the ability to see is a light show. Now recognize you are seeing the world in the eyes of this society, its truth and creation. These meditative and visual practices allow us to see our world, the real world. Yes I feel all Morpheus now so I will end here...
After our reading we will do a clearing and sharing. We will clear anything that rose up and needs to be addressed, removed and replaced with love.

Next some fun. The New moon is the indication of a new month. You can measure seven day cycles by the moon. So we will use this psychological trigger and any energy around it to equate a new beginning. I want you to think of something you would like to manifest and we are going to do a visualization. It is scientifically proven the mind makes things real to us. From the terror your mind can create from a bug that cannot truly harm you, to the muscles firing off in the body of a runner imagining to run a race in his mind. Your emotions can make you blissful or ill. With these ideas in mind we will begin preparing our minds to manifest a goal.

Under the premise that what ever your focus be you will receive. The Reticular Activating system in your brain that sorts things out and controls sleep state cycles actually can be programmed to assist you. You ever notice as soon as your boy/girlfriend bought that purple Dodge Charger you notice every purple Dodge Charger every where you go. Seemingly there are even more than you remembered in your neighborhood. This is your Reticular activating system and the power of perception. Your brain actually will show you what it is you hold important. The world is gonna keep on spinning but you can create your own world of concerns and your mind will focus on your concerns. Positive or Negative.

So we will choose something that we want to manifest in about 14 days or less. Please be realistic in your mind because if you can not perceive it your not going to manifest it. As you develop control over all levels of your mind you will be able to manifest more miraculous things. The less you involve yourself the better because the Universe and the Creator of All that is has ALL possibilities. However All possibilities will not over ride our free will and mind. Unfortunately!

We will do the guided meditation to visualize, smell, taste and feel what we will manifest then we will release it into the Universe and see what materializes. Remember please do not focus on any expectations during the gestation period. Just focus on using positive creative energy, training your mind and coming together on one accord. Write down what ever negative thoughts come to mind telling you mind to cancel or find all, remove all clear all negative thoughts blocking my manifestation. If you do not get what you want in 14 days check your list do a focus prayer to God or your higher power to remove these from your subconscious mind. Do some yes therapy, or muscle test to see if they are gone. The do the meditation again.

DO NOT interfere with the free will of another person example: I want to have Billy from accounting fall in love with me. That is a no no. What you can ask is for your most compatible soul mate to come to you.
Remember people are complicated and can take more than 14 days as the Universe cannot affect free will, Perhaps your most compatible soul mate is on an Army tour or taking care of his/her sick mom. Be patient with love and know its coming.

It is important that we affirm for these things to manifest for the highest good of all involved. Some of us have poverty thinking programmed within. For instance "never having to work again" perhaps the first thing that comes to mind is lottery but what are the odds. A more realistic perception maybe become disabled and get a check. So it is important that we affirm that it manifest for the highest good of all involved.

Last we will ground, center and chat. <3 I will see you on the new moon. Any questions, concerns email me or FB message me. guruwannab@gmail.com
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Akashic Record Crash Course 

from the manual I believe by Stephen Lovering

There are many ways to access the Akashic Records.

Certain people go into subconscious states to read the records,

such as the late American mystic Edgar Cayce.

Mr. Cayce did his readings while in a sleep state, or trance.

Other ways that an individual can gain access to their records is

by any of the following:

Meditation

Creative Visualization

Past Life Regression

Dreamweaving

Where are the Records Found?

Some believe the Akashic Records are found between the astral

plain and the mental plane. From these planes, the records permeate through all the dimensional

realities or levels within the universe. Some people say they are in the forth dimension (seperate from a plane)The Akashic records incorporate both the personal and the transpersonal of all manifestations including angelic energies. They are existing at a much higher vibration than the Collective Unconscious

(which permeates through the 1st, 2nd, and 3rd

planes of the 7 Astral Planes model )

They exist at a much higher vibration than the Cosmic Mind

(which permeates through the 4th, 5th, 6th, and 7th levels of the

Astral Planes model ).

The Akashic Records exist so that we might share our individual

journey here in this dimensional reality with one another.

In the Akashic Records - we are all ONE .

What are the Benefits of an Akashic Reading?

Curiosity

Seeking the Truth

You want to know who you are

You want to know where you have lived in the past

You want to know the impact of past lives upon you today

You want to know about future experiences

You want to receive valuable guidance on how to works through present pattern,

challenges, or issues

You want to make a career change or life transition

You are searching for clarity in a relationship

You are looking for spiritual guidance

Looking for answers for specific physical, mental, and/or emotional problems

What is my soul purpose?

What is the Goal of reading the Akashic Records?

The goal of reading the Akashic Records is to provide valuable

information to assist you in having a better life.

This information can help assist you in living a better and

happier life right now.

This information can help enhance your personal development,

as well as, your spiritual.

An Akashic reading can bring the guidance you need in your life to work through

present problems, it can allow people the opportunities they need for growth,

direction, creativity, and joy, and an Akashic reading can bring peace and

understanding to current day illnesses, grief, and suffering.

An Akashic reading can help you sort out difficult or major life transitions. It can bring

clarity to your thought processes or help you to see the problem from an angle you

have not considered.

When you access the records, you will normally see those event

with the greatest amount of energy around them.

These are the things that will want to be addressed first.

You will to select and then, tune into, the first thought that comes through,

and work with it and watch it unfold.

Spend time after a session to integrate the information you received.

Journaling

Journaling is one of the most helpful tools to use while

accessing the Akashic Records.

After each session, quickly jot down all the things you remember,

take note of the words, the symbols, the colors, the smells,

and even the tastes that you can remember of your session.

This may prove invaluable in the future as things begin to unfold.

You will then have a quick reference guide of your

experiences.

Journaling can also help to clarify the answers that you receive

to specific questions.

Before your next Akashic reading session, jot down a question

at the top of your journal.

Sit in your meditation

Access the Records

Ask the question

Write down the answer

Give gratitude

Review your notes after the session

Some journaling Questions

What is my Soul’s Purpose?

Why am I always ill?

Who am I?

Am I on the right path?

Am I in the right vocation?

Am I in the right relationship?

What is my purpose on Earth at this time?

Why can’t I heal?

What is physically wrong with me?

What emotional scars am I carrying around?

What Karmic debts do I need to pay?

Where will I find happiness?

Will I ever find true love?

What NOT to expect an Akashic Records Reading

The Future

(We can all change, and when we do, the future changes)

Cures

(Cures can be partial or do more harm than good. Seek out the

cause of illnesses. Sometimes, the illness is what leads us out

into the world as a seeker.)

Medical Diagnosis

(No one is allowed to give a medical diagnosis unless they are a

trained and licensed medical doctor ).

Relationship Issues

(No one should encourage same sex relationships, divorces,

having affairs, etc. Leave these decisions to the client ).

Co-Dependency

(Do not encourage clients to so depend upon you that they can

no longer make any decisions for their lives on their own. This

is very greedy and will lead to karmic debts).

Rayna Howe

Holistic Health Consultant
LMT, USUI Reiki Master
Registered Karuna Reiki Master ®

Certified Theta Healing Practitioner ®

Certified Sacred Energy Practitioner

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Polyamory, or "Open Sexual Relationships" What Say You and Why? Revised from Valentines Day 2011

POLYAMORY (Webster) "Open relationships" Multiple Partners...

My reasoning or choice to discuss has nothing to do with religious significance but more so human rights, insight, social, psychological reasoning and a respect of free will and choice. REALITY vs PERCEPTION.
My moon sister touched on this last year and I want to revisit as to see just what people have to say. I do not want to hear the traditional response or the most accepted logic. Please open your mind. I do not need you to agree but if your against it come with something other than personal or religious values. Is it acceptable for one sex over the other, why or why not? Questions compel self exploration and self exploration in sexuality is a pathway to identifying your true nature and desires instead of adopting your cultures. It is very important to know where your beliefs stem from and if they are even YOURS or impressions from outsiders.

Do I support it? Hmmm when my friends ask me about their personal feelings and actions and how they choose to express emotions... I often validate ALL feelings. I believe we have a right to feel anyway we wan as long it is conducive to our goals and desires in the end. One should live according to what makes one comfortable causing minimal conflict. If this is done without offense and with integrity and does not cause you any negativity then do it! I have to respect choice, call me a liberal but natural laws always have cause and effect and if the effects are desired how can I tell you how to live? 

Polyamory: the state or practice of having more than one open romantic relationship at a time. I already touched on romance which is basically a legendary or novel illusion. So polyamory would basically mean multiple sex partners in a relationship. 

Definition of RELATIONSHIP1 : the state of being related or interrelated 2 : the relation connecting or binding participants in a relationship: as a : kinship b : a specific instance or type of kinship3 a : a state of affairs existing between those having relations or dealings b : a romantic or passionate attachment.

We have already visited romance in the previous post, its imaginary.

Definition of ROMANTIC 1: consisting of or resembling a romance2: having no basis in fact : imaginary3: : impractical in conception or plan : visionary

Polyandry can also be open relationship between more than a couple, a group open relationship...

In a relationship what is most important to you, truth or rules, who chooses the boundaries society or mates? Are we getting what we want (BETTER YET NEED) in the relationship?  Are we sacrificing self to appease another? What should you be willing to negotiate, settle for or compromise to have a successful relationship without loosing yourself? Can you be yourself and experience the ONENESS a divine union is supposed to bring? Is marriage a contractual business agreement, a divine union, both and if so how does polyamory fit into that? What is your view on the practicalities of relationships as far as goals and lively hood or is it all romance or sex? Just how important is sex hehehe I've seen it ruin business relationships, investments and other well thought out plans in an impulse. Perhaps it should be considered seriously.
Time to be real and stop hiding behind the value systems our religions and society has placed on us. You have to live with your decisions and God knows your heart. Why fool yourself? 

Exerts from Psychology today article.

***"We're always looking for ways to solve or avoid problems. So it's probably inevitable that some people will come to polyamory hoping that polyamory will allow them to avoid dealing with problematic personal issues or that it will solve problems in an existing relationship, but if this works at all it's usually a temporary fix. In a few cases, however, polyamory does allow people to create healthy and functional relationships they probably could not have managed otherwise."***

So above they are saying seems polyamory can be a way to deal with or mask the anxieties of a monogamous relationship by creating boundaries and rules that are acceptable to you and your MATES. I believe in freedom and the pursuit of happiness. As long as your intent is not to misuse another, you act with honesty and integrity and without double standards I don't see why this can't logically work if everyone's EMOTIONALLY equipped to handle it. Also many people stay in a monogamous relationship in eyes view while the only monogamy is going on is with the assets.

***"Some want a stable and nurturing environment in which to raise their children. Some use polyamory to mask or excuse addictions to sex, work, or drama while others seek utopian or spiritual rewards or want to take a stand for cultural change. Others are simply doing what's fun and what comes naturally for them or are rebelling against religious prohibitions or family expectations. Some use polyamory as a weapon in a power struggle or to punish a controlling partner. Some want to keep their erotic life alive and vital while in long term committed relationships or to fulfill sexual or emotional desires they can't meet with only one person or with their existing partner. Some are trying to make up for developmental gaps or to balance unequal sex drives. Some people do not start out consciously choosing polyamory at all, but find that polyamory has chosen them."***

What about addictions and behaviors that abuse polyamory? Would this be evident in the persons behavior such as denial, lying to other partners creating the illusion of something that does not exist to control another person. I think honesty is best. These behaviors or desired practices should be addressed prior to marriage. Thats why knowledge of self is so important (aside from this issue).
Sometimes we do not realize why we have certain behaviors but being honest with your partners may open the floor to questions that allow self growth and relationship growth. Being compassionate and honest with someone (the golden rule) often opens a door for self discovery and understanding within as well as trust and communication in the relationship.

Free will is a B&%$# when you want someone all to yourself but when you truly love someone you want what is best for them. Many times we have this type of relationship anyway without knowing. When the romantic illusion is whisked away and you find you are not someones everything it can be traumatic  Why would you want such a burden anyway?  Heck I am still working on being a rock to myself and my kids and letting God be my everything.

***"Ester Perel, author of Mating in Captivity, wisely advises that "The presence of the third is a fact of life; how we deal with it is up to us. We can approach it with fear, avoidance, and moral outrage; or we can bring to it a robust curiosity and a sense of intrigue ... Acknowledging the third has to do with validating the erotic separateness of your partner. It follows that our partner's sexuality does not belong to us. It isn't just for and about us, and we should not assume that it rightfully falls within our jurisdiction. It doesn't."***

What say you?

Love Without LimitsReports from the relationship frontierby Deborah Anapol, Ph.D.http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/love-without-limits/201008/why-do-people-choose-polyamory

Rayna Howe

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